Saturday, December 31, 2011

Life as Mr & Mrs on a Saturday

Their day started at 6.45am. It was supposed to be earlier, but the Mr could not wake up when his alarm rang at 6.30. Both of them dragged their sleepy butts out of the house to make their way to MacRitchie.

The Mr met up with his usual running buddY (-Y because the -IES didn't turn up or were late) and both of them went on the 10km route. The Mrs, on the other hand, was accompanied by her trusty iPhone and did the 4.5km route (u-turn at the fork).


It had been rainy the past few days, thus the trail was muddy & slippery.


They left MacRitchie at 10am and went for breakfast at the Mr's favorite bcm stall at Longhouse. Mrs tried the Prawn Noodle instead. It was ok, but the soup could be a bit tastier.



After brunch, they took the Circle Line from Marymount to Dhoby Ghaut. They hung out at Plaza Singapura to kill time as their Art Exploration Session @ Istana Park only starts at 1pm.

At the session they were told that they can put colours on to their "blue" painting that they have produced last week. Mrs struggled with the mixing of colours (should have picked a reference pic with less funny colours) while Mr's painting was still blue-ish by the end of the session. The session lasted for 2 and a half hours.


They took the Circle Line again, but this time to Stadium. There, they visited the Mega Discount Store for the 2nd time (1st time last week) in search for a washing machine & an oven. The Mrs did not like that the placement of the appliances were disparate such that it was difficult to make comparisons. Mr also got frustrated by the Mrs for being indecisive. They left Kallang Leisure Park without making any purchase.

Mr & Mrs continued on their Circle Line journey, this time stopping at Bishan (Junction 8) for dinner. Mrs discovered this restaurant a week back and loved it so much that she brought the Mr here this time.













Sunday, November 6, 2011

Photo Montage


This video was played before the 2nd march-in. Apologies for the low-resolution. Blogger had to compress the video for it to be streamed online :)
Will check if Facebook is better

Blogging the last two days of singlehood

Wednesday, 3 Nov 2011
Woke up today at 7am. Took today & tomorrow off from work because there's a lot of errands to run. The rest of the house is awake too. Went for breakfast at the coffeeshop downstairs, then took a cab to ROM. Arrived at 8.05. ROM opens at 8.30. So had to stand outside. Soon more couples started to arrive, and everyone stood outside. As 8.30 nears, all couples (including us) edge closer to the main door, hoping to be 1st in line. Darn, should have formed queue right from the start.

8.30am. Doors open. Our queue number: 0006. Waited for about 10 mins, got attended by a man, who upon realizing that the Solemnizer is my uncle, cut short the briefing, on the pretext that "your uncle will brief you". We had to pledge some civil oath to declare that we're above 18, not currently married, and that all information in Form A is correct. After which Mr ROM hands us the cert & other paper docs for that day. Total time spent with Mr ROM: 15 mins.
Author's note: Remember to bring your ICs, witnesses' IC (original or photocopy) & letter of consent by Solemnizer.

9.30am. Arrived Woodlands 656. The big spring cleaning begins. This involved mopping the floors, wiping stuff, cleaning toilets, changing bed sheet. The whole affair was a 4-people effort that lasted for 2 hours.

1pm. Lunch at Everything with Fries, Holland Village. Loved the lamb burger. But can't wait for the Fergburger in Queenstown.

6pm. Rehearsal. Realised that the march-in is very long. Selected the march-in music and tested out all the audio & video. The hotel AV coordinator is very friendly and accommodative. We are also thankful that everyone came for the rehearsal in full force.

Thursday, 4 Nov 2011
Woke up at 7am again. Because of stomach ache. Realised I missed out a friend's bday yesterday. HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY MELISSA!

Breakfast at coffee shop. Rented 6 plastic chairs for $1 each (deposit $100) from the warehouse at Depot Lane. Went back to pack cum clean my room. I have 2 luggages to pack: overnight bag for the hotel & things to put in new house and beyond.

11am. Mani & Pedi at Summer Nail Salon Great World City. Bought deal at $22 for gelish. Normal pedicure costs $32.30. Am typing this as I wait for the pedi to dry.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Bridesmaid dresses

Starring: City Plaza & the iPhone

The flustered bride finally realised that the Jie meis should have coordinated dressing for the morning programme because
1) there's phototaking session after the tea ceremony
2) the guys are dressing according to a theme
3) who wouldn't want to look pretty?

Given the limited time, they opted to scour the online blogs for possible dresses. As the bride was in the vicinity of City Plaza that weekend, she dropped in to check out the dresses there, hoping to find something that wasn't a convertible dress. Given that the City Plaza visit was a "spur of the moment" thing, the jie meis were unable to join in; but promised to stick close to their phones so that they could get instant updates through Whatsapp.

The bride did have to work with certain restrictions: no tubes, modest length, non-pastel pink.

One of the first shops that the bride chanced upon was Estrella Collections (#02-108). The shop sells convertible dresses (now they come in 2-tones for a single dress) and dresses suitable for weddings (at reasonable prices). See pics below for the selections. The bride highly recommends this shop because of the helpful shop owner and her service staff.
New arrival - Arrived only the day before
Nice coral colour, but cutting is a bit small

Gorgeous colour and design, but very sexy

Very sweet and simple, but limited stock available

Gorgeous colour & material, but tube dress.

The jie meis were agreeable with most of the bride's selections. Stay tuned on 5 Nov 2011 to find out which dress the bride eventually chose for her jie meis. For info, the whole process took less than an hour!

Do note that the bride also visited other shops in City Plaza to ensure that she got the best deals. Here's what other parts of City Plaza has to offer:

Sunday, October 16, 2011

The Chronicles of the Wedding Invitation

1) Collect cards from the hotel
2) Order inserts from TDragons
3) Collect inserts from TDragons
4) Write guest names on the insert
5) Set up the card (i.e use the gold string to tie the insert to the card)
6) Write guest address on the envelope
7) Put card & map in the envelope
8) Buy stamps
9) Mail the card out

Repeat steps 1 to 9 for 210 times.

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

1 month to the wedding!

Here's an update to the wedding prep:

  • Set the wedding date -- DONE
  • Book a wedding venue -- DONE (Extra article)
  • Book a bridal package -- DONE
  • Select the bridal gowns and groom's suit -- DONE
  • Shop for accessories (shoes, shirt) -- DONE
  • Pre-wedding photoshoot (& photo selection) -- DONE 
  • Buy wedding bands -- DONE
  • Recruit brothers & jie meis -- DONE
  • Confirm the Solemnizer -- DONE
  • E-File your marriage -- DONE
  • Plan/Book your honeymoon -- DONE
  • Print invitation cards -- DONE
  • Send out invitation cards -- collecting cards on 10 Oct
  • Confirm menu details & food-tasting -- scheduled on 13 Oct
  • Select wedding favours -- DONE
  • Final fitting of gowns -- scheduled on 1 Nov
  • Traditional customaries -- DONE
  • Book actual day photographer/videographer -- DONE
  • Pick wedding music -- DONE (need to buy CD)
  • Plan banquet program -- 1st draft completed
  • Confirm guestlist
  • Photo montage -- needs a Macbook :(
  • Collect ROM Cert -- Scheduled on 4th Nov
  • Thank you speech

Friday, September 30, 2011

Invitation Cards

Starring: The old-fashion couple

Pan Pacific gave the couple a selection of three wedding cards: Black-red, Silver-pink, and Red-gold. Being old-fashion and traditional and not wanting to get in trouble with the elders, the couple eliminated the black-red card immediately. The silver-pink card looked too sweet and a bit non-Chinese-y, so they stuck with the typical red-gold. The cards are longish in design, not the best of size because it limits the printing space.
In their wedding package, the couple were entitled to 210 pieces of cards (70% of total number of pax). They had to source for the printers (with recommendation from the hotel). It seems that "tdragoncards" is the only invitation card printing company used by most couples who are getting married. Probably because the vendor has very good relations with hotels and/or they are smart enough to be located in City Hall (Peninsula Shopping Centre).

The couple went to TDragons on a Monday evening (TDragon is open from 11am to 8pm on Monday to Friday, and 10am to 2pm on Saturday). The shop was very crowded as it was near closing time. Nonetheless the staff were nice enough to attend to the couple even after 8pm. They had a very systematic approach which made the couple feel at ease although they were secretly blur like sotong.

Question 1: Are you looking for cards + printing or printing only?
After informing them that they are only looking for printing services for their Pan Pac red cards, Ms Nice Lady from TDragon came with a set of wording templates and samples of the templates being printed on the red cards. The templates were very useful as the couple could easily see that the red colour of the card was too dark and thus hot-stamping on the cards itself will make the words unclear.

Question 2: Hot-Stamping or Insert Printing?
The couple easily made this decision as explained in Question 1. You can find the price list here.

Question 3: What words to put in the card?
The couple did ample research on this beforehand (i.e. referred to cards from their friends). They decided to go with the traditional wordings (e.g. Parents inviting the guest to their children's wedding) vs the modern one (e.g. Together with our parents, we, the couple invite you the guest to our wedding).

Once you decide on the style, the words are quite standard.The couple tried to phrase their card as best as they could to disseminate the fact that the holy matrimony will be held during the banquet itself. As such, guests are kindly requested to be punctual!

The Chinese wordings were a breeze as Ms Nice Lady helped the couple go through the arduous task of knowing how and what to write. Some of the key questions she asked were if the grandparents (father side) were still alive and whether the couple had brother and sisters.

Author's Note: Remember to find out your parent's full name & Chinese character name before going there.

Question 4: Cartoons?
An additional non-word item on the card costs $10 regardless of number of cards you have. The couple thinks it's a very easy way of earning $10 but the graphic does make the card look less wordy. The couple wanted to pick one which was super big to make the $10 worthwhile but in the end chose something sweet-ish instead.

Question 5: How many to print?
The couple's initial reaction was huh? "Of course print the same number as the number of cards you have". Ms Nice Lady enlightened them that (a) What makes you think you have enough cards (since the hotel gave you 70% only) and (b) You sure you won't make mistake? Hmmm... The couple hasn't ordered additional cards from the hotel yet, but some guests have pre-opted for e-invitations instead to save them the hassle & cost & trees.

The meeting with TDragon lasted for about 30 minutes. They produced the first draft within 3 days of the appointment and would be ready with the inserts 10 days later! The old-fashioned couple will be collecting their cards on 10/10/11. Everyone look out for the invites in your mailboxes!

Author's Note: 
TDragon's contact information -- 

tdragoncards.com
Showroom/Customer Service Centre
No. 3 Coleman Street, Peninsula Shopping Centre #03-01
Singapore 179804
(Near City Hall MRT, Next to Funan Centre IT Mall)
Tel: 6292 8338       Fax: 6333 9279

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Appointments (in various definitions)

Starring: The "IT Geek" and "The Guy who is glad he has an iPhone" (aka "The Guy")

September was a month of appointments.
  • Appointment with the wedding coordinator from the hotel to discuss banquet matters
  • Appointment at the bridal studio for photo selection
  • Appointment for trial makeup
  • Pseudo-appointment to order print outs for the wedding invitation
  • and subsequent appointment to collect them
  • Appointment with friends
  • Appointment of friends
  • Appointment with the mattress/bed delivery guy
  • Appointment with video person

The IT Geek introduced the guy to Google Calendar. They set up a calendar to mark upcoming appointments and to book cave-time slots (either alone or with friends). It took a while for The Guy to learn how to connect to the calendar and IT Geek has since moved on to Google Calendar sending alerts via SMS. Woohoo! Now she's very inspired to put an LCD screen up at home with Google Calendar on it so that they can have easy access to each other's schedules. But of course, money is always the limiting factor (and practicality as well).

Appointments are a chore, especially if the other party do not keep to the pre-agreed time. The couple are now very glad that they have chose all their wedding-related matters in the same area (i.e. Pan Pac, Bliss at Marina Square) so that they can schedule appointments on the same day. In addition, Marina Square is very accessible (except during the F1 season) and its a mere bus ride from both her Depot Road home and church. * Woodlands is far from everything so the measure of accessibility do not count

During the appointments, the guy will try his best to pay attention and match the enthusiasm of the IT Geek, who has done tonnes of research (especially on the invitation card wordings). Nonetheless there will be times when he will turn to his trusty soccer game on his iPhone. The guy also uses his iPhone extensively to appoint his brothers and other wedding-related personnel. Maybe the IT Geek should set up SMS alerts for the guy's phone as well.




Friday, September 9, 2011

E-File your Marriage

The earliest you can file your marriage is 3 months before. The latest is 21 days.

Why the restriction in timing? I guess the min days (I.e 21 days) is in place to ensure you're not marrying someone at random or at least have a decent amount of time to think through what you're doing. The 3 months max limit is probably there because by then your ROM date should be confirmed & unlikely to change.

Someone told me that if you have offended lots of ppl previously in your past relationships, it may be wiser to file later.

Make sure you have the following information ready for a smoother e-filing process
- You & your partner's ic number
- Full name of Solemnizer
- Solemnizer registration number
- 2 x Witnesses' ic number

You will receive an SMS and an email after you have successfully filed the notice of your marriage detailing some additional instructions. The instructions include date & time for Appointment for Verification & Statuatory Declaration (The date cannot be changed) and what to bring to the appointment.

Here's the link to the e-filing application: https://app.rom.gov.sg/internet/efile/file_notice_marriage_step1a.asp

Monday, September 5, 2011

2 Months to the wedding!

It's 2 months to the wedding!!!

We started the planning way back in February last year, went full-steam ahead, got distracted a little (by the house) and now it's back to full-steam mode again!

Here's a summarised update (+ implicit table of contents) on what's done and what's not (in no particular order):
  • Set the wedding date -- DONE
  • Book a wedding venue -- DONE (Extra article)
  • Book a bridal package -- DONE
  • Select the bridal gowns and groom's suit -- DONE
  • Shop for accessories (shoes, shirt) -- DONE
  • Pre-wedding photoshoot (& photo selection) -- DONE 
  • Buy wedding bands -- DONE
  • Recruit brothers & jie meis -- DONE
  • Confirm the Solemnizer -- DONE
  • E-File your marriage -- DONE
  • Plan/Book your honeymoon -- DONE
  • Print invitation cards
  • Send out invitation cards
  • Confirm menu details & food-tasting
  • Select wedding favours
  • Final fitting of gowns
  • Traditional customaries -- DONE
  • Book actual day photographer/videographer
  • Pick wedding music
  • Plan banquet program
  • Confirm guestlist

The checklist still seems daunting although it has been trimmed down for a non-picky bride.
The venue deco items (flowers, colour theme, etc) and wedding items (cake, wedding favours, invitation cards) are taken care by the hotel and there are also limited selections to choose from. The bridal package, on the other hand, takes care of matters concerning the couple (e.g. makeup, hairdo, bouquet, car deco).

With exactly 2 months left till the wedding, we will shift our focus back to the items currently marked not done to ensure that family and friends feel welcomed and blessed when they join us in our celebration.

Monday, August 8, 2011

The Unveil of 656 Woodlands Ring Road

Starring: Mr "If you can't see it means it's clean" and Ms "You're not allowed to sit on the sofa".

After 1 month (plus) of renovation, the humble abode at Blk 656 Woodlands Ring Road was finally "ready"! The couple spent 2 days cleaning the house, during which Mr "If you can't see it means it's clean"'s philosophy was frequently applied, especially in obscure parts of the house. Nonetheless, the cleanup was still torturous; and to add to his  misery, Ms "You're not allowed to sit on the sofa" didn't allow him to sit on the sofa.

The sofa is currently covered with bedsheet and Ms "You're not allowed to sit on the sofa" insists that the sofa will only be functional when there are guests or after they move in. Otherwise it remains as an artpiece.

Cove lighting + art piece at the bottom-left corner
TV Console + Display cabinets from Mode Studio
Hock Siong coffee/end tables
View from the living room + ZX's grilles
Roller blinds for the service balcony void
Tempered glass sliding door for the kitchen

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Furnishing the home

Now that the renovation is almost completed, the next step would be to furnish the home.

Due to limited budget, we obviously cannot afford furnishing the entire home and thus, would have to focus on essential items first. You may want to read this article on the 7 essential pieces of furniture for your first home. It makes sense although I must admit, I found this article randomly from Google.

1. A SOFA
Prices for an L-shaped or 3-seater sofa start from $700. The cheapest one that we've found so far (not counting those kucing kurap ones) is a 3-seater leather sofa from Ikea. It's actually quite comfy but the colour is beigy-white (quite hard to upkeep). We've also seen other decent L-shaped and 3-seater leather sofas at Sea Horse going for less than $800. Nowadays sofas have become so sophisticated that you can get sofas with slide-in/slide-out seats, put-up/put-down headrests,  recline features, or all of the above (but they obviously come with a price). 

Our story: You may have recalled our sofa story in a previous post. We are glad to inform that due to our persistent hounding, the sales manager agreed to lower the price to $850. The goods have been delivered and the sofa now lies smugly in the living room. (GRIN)

Note: Mode Studio is now having their Opening Sale at their new outlet in Marina Square Level 3. 





2. A DINING TABLE
The author aptly listed "A table that you can eat from" because nowadays we tend to have our meals in front of the TV (if at home) or outside. This is mainly due to difference in meal times, popular TV programmes at dining times, and the added convenience of dining out. 

Dining tables are, unfortunately, very expensive. They are priced as though to penalise those who really want to have proper meals (inelastic demand). In addition, some are really ugly - either too elaborated with glass designs, or too bulky.

Our story: We wanted a dining table that was value for money because we don't forsee ourselves using the table every single day except probably to put mails and keys on it. Big furniture shops like Nova, Courts etc pride themselves with Mediacorp-drama-worthy dining tables (i.e. big and elaborated). After scouring the limited dining table market, it seemed that only Ikea had slim & classy designs. However they weren't cheap either (total set around $700) because you have to pay for the chairs separately. And the material (compressed wood) was...questionable. We finally found our dining table set ($599 - 1 solid rubber wood table, 6 chairs) at a Furniture & Home Expo. It is the cheapest set we've seen and at least it's made of solid wood. We'll post a picture of it once we have it delivered.

TIP: If you're doing home reno, you can also ask your contractor/carpenter to build a dining table for you.


3. WARDROBE/CLOSET
If you are doing renovations, built-in wardrobes may be a natural and more convenient choice. They look better (i.e. you can customise the laminate and the design), fit better (i.e. full heighr & can fit the whole length of the wall) and can last longer (assumption). I know Ikea offers custom-made wardrobes, but I am not too familiar with how much they cost.

Our story: We picked D'Esprit mainly because their in-house carpenter had great workmanship based on earlier experience with him. He didn't disappoint and we're very happy with our full height 5-door wardrobe in the master bedroom. Mr Hill threw in free anti-slam door hinges as well!

4. BEDSIDE TABLE
A bedside table is good for putting your spectacles, a cup of water, storybook, alarm clock, watch, and other random stuff that you put away only when you're about to go to sleep. Prices for a bedside table start from $19 (Ikea, no frills, just 5 pieces of wood). Normal furniture stores are still selling normal-shaped bedside tables (i.e. Cuboid-ish) so you are only selecting a bedside table based on price, colour, material, drawers/no drawers.

Our story: A friend of ours introduced us to Hock Siong. The place is a hidden gem for those who don't mind quality 2nd-hand furniture from 5 star hotels and showrooms. We found a solid wood bedside table there that cost $45. The table has a drawer and a casement cabinet.

TIP: Hock Siong has a wide selection of writing tables (those you can find in hotel rooms), coffee/end tables (those you see in hotel lobby lounges) and lamps. They also sell high quality stuff like rose-wood sofa sets and dining tables. Hock Siong provides free delivery for purchases more than $300.


5. WINDOW COVERING (i.e. BLINDS/CURTAINS)
The wife initially thought that blinds/curtains were a waste of money because they will be redundant most of the time. Nonetheless the article did bring up a good point about needing some place to change. Since HDB bathrooms are really small and the floors are usually wet after shower (see Point 6), it makes it rather inconvenient to wear long pants in the bathroom. In these circumstances, blinds/curtains can help to protect your modesty.

Our story: Mr Hill brought us to a "window specialist" to select our window films and to enquire about blinds. We found the place dodgy and KTV-like, and mainly because the price wasn't cheap, we decided not to get the blinds from them. We contacted Mr Ang the blind man, who also did the blinds for the wife's existing flat. The husband was very please with Mr Ang and the quote and agreed to purchase the blinds for him. We'll be installing timber blinds for the living & master bedroom + roller blinds for the void at the service balcony. The blinds cost around $1000, not cheap because we got a lot of windows!!!! and the void is 2-storey high!!!

6. SHOWER SCREEN
Although a shower screen is technically not a furniture, the wife insists that is an essential element for the washroom. The shower screen only serves one purpose: Block water thus keep the floor dry. These screens don't come cheap. The screen is made of tempered glass and the labour cost to set up the screen is expensive too.

Our story: The wife is very happy with her shower screen in the shared bathroom although Mr Hill & the husband beg to differ. According to them, the screen was awkwardly positioned and looks really ugly, but the wife doesn't care :)

Friday, July 8, 2011

Dear Jetstar Customer Feedback Form

My flight from Singapore to AKL on 15 Nov 2011 was cancelled with NO NOTIFICATION sent out to me. I was informed about this cancellation BY MYSELF.
This is a severe inconvenience for me because
1. I have a paid, non-refundable ticket on Firefly to Singapore on 14 Nov (arriving Singapore 6.30pm)
2. I have a paid, non-refundable booking on Air NZ on 16 Nov 2011 2.15pm
3. I have booked and paid deposit for a 12-day NZ tour with Firstlight Travel starting from 16 Nov.

I am very disappointed because all I needed from your side was
1. A written letter of notification that the flight is cancelled within 1 working day
2. Refund of the full air fare within 5 working days
But I was told by the call centre agents that they are limited by the system. And the only ppl who could bypass the system were the customer svc agents who mans this feedback form.

I seek your assistance in fulfilling our requests as this trip was supposed to be our honeymoon and due to this misfortune there is added costs and alternative arrangements that need to be done.

Thank you.

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Dressing up for the wedding++

Starring: The Practical Couple
Now that the stress of bridal gown selection is put behind, the practical couple moved on to a new stressful chapter of buying the husband's shirts, shoes, belt, tie, etc and the wife's shoes. There was urgency because (1) photoshoot is in July (2) it is the GSS now.

The wife did not want to spend more than $50 on her shoes. And would like the shoe to be re-usable on other occasions (best if can be worn to work). Comfort was also a very important criteria as the wife's feet is prone to blisters & sores.

With so many restrictions & requirements in place, shoe-hunting was certainly not an easy task as there were lots of designs to choose from. There were bling bling shoes (i.e shoes encrusted with fake diamonds), glittery shoes (the straps of these shoes look as though someone poured glitter on them), satin shoes (usually close-toed with strappy heel, a bit old fashioned), and strappy ribbon shoes (duh).


After visiting Parkway Parade, Marina Square, VivoCity, Harbourfront, and Causeway Point, the wife finally found her shoe at Robinsons @ Raffles City. Robinsons had the most variety of wedding shoes out of all the places the couple went. There was also a 15% discount on the $59.90 shoe, making it slightly above the wife's budget by 90cents.

(See pic on the left for the wife's strappy ribbon heel)

 The husband decided that he wanted only a white shirt because (1) white is versatile (i.e. can match the many colour gowns of the wife) (2) white can match the creamy suit better. He originally had qualms about the re-usability of a white shirt because according to him "it's weird to wear a plain white shirt to work", especially since the wife advised that the white should be very bright and not look like business wear.

The practical couple scoured many shops in search for the right white shirt, including Rossi (fabric is rather thin), G2000 (has pockets), T.M. Lewin (too business-like), Raoul (no bright white shirt), Robinsons (uncle shirts), Metro (uncle shirts), Gap (no white dress shirts), Zara (business-like), and Domanchi (too fancy).

They narrowed down their selections to a textured white shirt with concealed buttons from Tangs (Library brand) and a white shirt with cool buttons from AX. As the husband looked more sleek in the AX shirt and the material seemed better, the practical couple went ahead to purchase the shirt at a 30% discount. The shirt was more expensive than G2000, T.M. Lewin and Zara, but still cheaper than a custom-made shirt at Rossi.
(The AX shirt has stripy grey cuffs that can be concealed for the wedding, but exposed for work)

Now that the practical couple can check off the wife's shoes & husband's shirt from the shopping list, they can now focus on the husband's shoes. The "problem" lies in trying to find a versatile-coloured pair of shoes that can match the creamy white suit and black mandarin collar suit. The couple is looking at brown shoes, but are still undecided on which shade of brown.

Sunday, June 19, 2011

The Renovation Story: The day our savings flew away~

Starring: "The Designer", "The Engineer" and "Mr Hill"

The appointment on 29 May 2011 was all about selections, selections, and selections.

Agenda Item 1: Pick wardrobe laminate
"The Engineer"  was absolutely bewildered by the myriad of laminate designs available. She was certain that she didn't want glossy laminates, but had no opinions on whether the laminate should be patterned, wood-y, shiny-matt, classic-matt, leather-y or fabric-y! (http://www.formica.com.sg/product-information/high-pressure) In the end she picked "dark brown" and left the detailed decision-making to "The Designer" as this was way out of her league.

Agenda Item 2: Pick kitchen cabinet laminate
"The Engineer"  knew that she wanted a bright kitchen, but not white nor glossy laminates. Unfortunately, she had no idea if the top and bottom cabinets should have the same laminates. This decision, was also left to "The Designer", who ended up picking a light-ish brown wood with vertical grains, in order to match the $800+ stainless steel backing.

Agenda Item 3: Pick kitchen tiles
Mr Hill recommended a glossy homogeneous tile with beach-y feel for the kitchen wall. The couple picked a grey-ish textured tile for the kitchen floor so that it could match the granite floor in the living and the existing grey-ish tile in the service yard.

Agenda Item 4: Pick toilet tiles
The couple's original idea of a pebble-wash floor in the toilets was scrapped after Mr Hill explained that the pebble-wash is difficult to maintain and can cause moss/algae to grow in between the pebbles. He introduced to the couple homogeneous tiles that looked pebble-y instead. The couple picked a brownish/greyish textured tile to match the existing greyish wall tiles.

Agenda Item 5: Pick TV console laminate
This was an easy choice because the couple found "a set of living room shelving" in a designer furniture store (Mode Studio) at Tradehub that was having a "Moving Out Sale". The shelves are L-shaped and the couple bought THREE of them at a discounted price (2 of them are display sets, 1 is new). The laminate for the TV console should thus obviously match the laminate of the shelves.
Author's Note: The "Moving Out Sale" at Mode Studio ends on 31st July. They are relocating to Marina Square. If you happen to be at the sale and see a brown couch on sale (original price $1,399) please call the couple immediately as they have been hounding the sales people at Mode every weekend to give them a better price. Currently the lowest offer given stands at $888. The couple is looking to pay $700.

Agenda Item 6: Pick sanitary & kitchen fittings
Mr Hill brought the couple to a shop that sells everything -  ranging from kitchen sink to water heater to hot tubs. The couple spent around $2,400 on 3 WCs (1 designer, 2 plain), 2 designer basins, 1 huge kitchen sink, 5 taps (not designer), 2 water heaters, 1 stove + hob, toilet accessories, etc. "The Designer"' was insistent on having a designer toilet bowl with concealed screws. 
Deposit paid on that day = $700

Agenda Item 7: Pick lightings
"The Engineer" would like all readers to know that the total cost of all lights in "The Designer"'s cove lighting feature costs
The Designer" would also like all readers to know that "The Engineer"'s 3 ceiling fans with remote control cost $1,200.
The total damage done in the lighting shop = $2,100 (paid deposit of $1,000)

Mr Hill updated that the HDB permit was already applied, and his contractors are ready to start work on 1st June 2011. Another 40% of the contract price was due on start work day, so the couple issued a post-dated cheque. This brings the total damage done on 29 May 2011 to a grand total of $20,000 :(

Monday, June 13, 2011

The Renovation Story: When "The Designer" and "The Engineer" Met D'Esprit

Starring: "The Designer" and "The Engineer"

Contractor 02 mentioned in previous chapter is actually D'Esprit here.

The preliminary renovation quotation given was approx $40K and excluded the cost of the following:
  • cost of sanitary fitting selection
  • cost of electrical and light fitting and installation cost.
  • plastering the ceiling/wall*
  • cost of furniture selection

* Our existing surface of the wall and ceiling are texturized. Plastering, which is costly, is required to smoothen the surfaces.

The quotation is substantially higher than the budget allocated by the couple.
Both "The Designer" and The Engineer" want to keep the total budget within $40K (i.e. inclusive of the cost of the hidden items).

By 'shaping up the budget', the couple is prepared to remove some items from their renovation wish list but they also did not want to let off the contractor so easily and therefore, have to bargain with him and put their charm into use.

The couple worked with Mr Hill, project consultant for D'Esprit. He kindly spent the whole afternoon to adjust the quotation. Some of the key highlights included:

  • With Mr Hill's advice, the "The Designer" decided that the existing sliding window, although does not tie in with his design intent, can actually be retained. (Savings of $3000)
  • The extensive ceiling design will require substantiate number of costly downlight fittings and cost false ceiling board, "The Designer" was therefore, compiled to keep the ceiling design 'lean' (ie to compromise on the design intent and to allow budget make the decision = Savings of $3500)
  • "The Engineer" wanted to have an extensive make-over for the toilets but upon hearing the cost breakdown, she decided to omit the option of hacking the toilet floor & wall tiles & the long bath in the master bedroom toilet. However she was still insistent in replacing the existing WC, wash-basin, to install a cheap cheap shower screen and bi-fold door. (Savings of $1000)
  • "The Designer" and "The Engineer" also decided to keep the kitchen reno work lean by having a shorter kitchen cabinet. (Savings of $1000)
Plus some bargain here and there (reduced price of toilet door from $220 to $188, total cost savings of $96) with Mr Hill, the couple reduced the renovation cost to $27,000. This provided some allowance for miscellaneous and hidden costs such as cooker hob, lighting, electrical works, WC, kitchen sink & tap, which kept the overall budget in check.

Author's Note: Advice those looking for renovation contractor: Remember to clarify with the contractor on the various hidden items and their respective cost prior to awarding the contract. These miscellaneous & hidden costs could add up to $6,000. 

Pleased with the quotation and their "bargaining power", the couple signed the renovation contract that same day (i.e. 21 May, aka 6 days after Mr Hill's site visit at Woodlands Ring Road). Payment due upon contract signing was 10%, but the couple did not bring their cheque book and was lazy to walk to the nearest ATM (a block away). Mr Hill agreed to delay the payment till their next appointment, which was set a week later, on 29 May.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

The Renovation Story: When "The Designer" Met "The Engineer"

Starring: "The Designer" and "The Engineer"

In "The Designer"'s world, the house should be designed to look like a showflat. That is, sleek designs, cozy lighting, proper placement of furniture, etc, so as to create a romantic and resort-like ambiance. Unfortunately, the expression of "The Designer"'s creative mind is severely restricted by (a) budget and (b) the existing grey granite floor.

Here are some of "The Designer"'s Inspirations (photos are linked directly from the web):
















In "The Engineer"'s world, the most important things to change are the toilet WCs and the kitchen. "The Engineer" is also strongly against standing standing fans and only endorses ceiling fans. Renovations to the rest of the house is secondary, and will take place only if budget permits.

Unfortunately, Woodlands Ring Road world belonged to both of them. There was a lot of compromising to be done, and a lot of expectations to be lowered.

Here's a summarised version of the renovation list that they came up with. The detailed version has around 90 items, and there is no need to bore the reader with irrelevant and uninteresting items like "Install kitchen sink with tap" and "Polishing of existing granite floor".

Living, Dining -- mainly the brainchild of the "The Designer"
1) Demolish existing hall feature, pillar, pipe cabinet, ceiling & cornices
2) Ceiling/Lighting/Ambiance feature
3) Sand & Re-varnish stairs railing
4) Timber venetian blinds
5) Elaborate oriental-styled TV console and shelving
6) Ceiling Fan -- veto-ed by "The Engineer" because she doesn't like standing fans

Toilets -- trump card played by "The Engineer"
1) Layover floor tiles
2) Replace WC & wash basin
3) Shower screen
4) Replace the bi-fold door

Kitchen -- Mutual decision
1) Entire makeover (including demolishing of existing floor & wall tiles)
2) Kitchen cabinet + Solid Surface + Stainless steel plate
3) Tempered glass sliding door

Master Bedroom -- Mutual decision
1) L-box/Cove Lighting -- Requested by "The Designer"
2) Full-height wardrobe
3) Timber venetian blinds
4) Ceiling fan

Whole House -- Mainly "The Designer"
1) Painting
2) Replace sliding windows to casement windows (white colour) -- "The Designer" claims that casement windows provide more ventilation
3) White colour window grilles -- "The Designer": For the minimalist look
4) Designer doors -- "The Designer" (duh)


Being a good civil servant ("The Engineer"), they asked for 3 quotations so that they can make an informed decision about who they wish to hire:
1) Random Interior Designer at IMM
2) "The Engineer"'s previous contractor
3) "The Designer"'s contractor contact

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Author's Note: Make sure that the contractor pays a visit to your house so that he can give a more accurate quotation. The site visit will also help him pick out potential problem areas and suggest alternative solutions.

The contractors take about 2 weeks to come back a preliminary quotation. After which, you should do a cost comparison based on each item in the quote. This action is highly-recommended because we discovered that despite giving all 3 contractors the same requirements, they all came back with quotations containing either too many or too little items.

Nonetheless, the general cost for our 90+ items to renovate is $10K more than our expected budget of $30K. We took a leap of faith, and "commissioned"* contractor 2 (details to be revealed in the next chapter). Thereafter we worked with him to push the renovation cost lower.

* Definition of "commissioned":
Pls note the word 'commissioned' used by the designer merely mean that the contractor 2 was approached to work out budget first.
No actual contract was signed at that point of time.

Monday, May 9, 2011

The non-committal turns committal (Bridal Gown Selection - Again)

After 2 visits to Bliss Bridal without any useful outcomes, Ms Non-Committal resolved to make her 3rd visit her final visit for gown selection.

Author's Note:
If you have read our previous entry on bridal gown selection, you may be deceived into thinking that all is well in the bridal gown department, and that Ms Non-Committal has selected her wedding gown during the 1st visit This statement held true...until she decided to try on the new arrival wedding gowns. This marked the start of the battle between the wedding gowns. 
Wedding gown A (selected in visit 1): unique, oriental-like and "looks like something I would wear". 
Vs.
Wedding gown B (new selection in visit 2): cliche, princessy/classy and "certainly doesn't look like what I would wear".
In addition, all evening gown potentials (from visit 1) were veto-ed by the parents for being not grand and outstanding enough.

During the appointment, the first thing the consultant did was whip out a piece of paper and numbered them as such:
1)*
2)
3)*
4)
5)
6)
Items 1 and 3 are asterix-ed because they are the actual day gowns.

Right off the start of the appointment, Ms Non-Committal "took the plunge" and confirmed gowns 1, 2 & 5. i.e.
1)* Wedding Gown B -- This gown looks better "live" than gown A. In addition, Mandarin Collar Guy had repeatedly assured Ms Non-Committal that it is ok to be cliched on her wedding day.
2) Wedding Gown A -- Used for photoshoot, hence Ms Non-Committal would get the best of both worlds.
3)* -- Undecided --
4) -- Undecided --
5) Cheena-like Evening Gown -- This evening gown was selected way back in Visit 1 but was veto-ed in Visit 2. Both Ms Non-Committal & Mandarin Collar Guy agreed that the top part of the gown looks really good and meets Ms Non-Committal's dream of a cheena-themed wedding banquet. However, the bottom part of the gown is a bit muted. They are convinced that Se-tee-ven the photographer would able to make the dress look amazing in photos.
6) -- Undecided --

Now that the white wedding gowns are settled, the focus is now on the actual day evening gowns. Ms Non-Committal requested to try "all red gowns in the bridal shop". The big problem is....a lot of the red gowns come with black lace/trimming and Ms Non-Committal is really traditional and does not want black on her gown. Red Gown #14 seems to be the only promising red gown in the bridal shop. Incidentally, that is the last red gown in the shop. The red gown has a princess-y cut and Mandarin Collar Guy likes it a lot. Ms Non-Committal however, is concerned of its close resemblance to gown (1) and decided to put Red Gown #14 as KIV.
1)* Wedding Gown B
2) Wedding Gown A
3)* Red Gown #14 (KIV)
4) -- Undecided --
5) Cheena-like Evening Gown
6) -- Undecided --

Since the shop ran out of red gowns, Ms Non-Committal moved on to Hot Pink gowns. She was on to her 3rd hot pink gown when she chanced upon a mermaid hot pink gown (MHPG) that she liked a lot. An immediate executive decision was made:
1)* Wedding Gown B
2) Wedding Gown A
3)* MHPG
4) -- Undecided --
5) Cheena-like Evening Gown
6) -- Undecided --
Out of List: Red Gown #14

The executive decision made Mandarin Collar Guy a little sad because he preferred Red Gown #14 to MHPG. His "ke lian" face worked and Ms Non-Committal agreed to re-insert Red Gown #14 as item 4. 
1)* Wedding Gown B
2) Wedding Gown A
3)* MHPG
4) Red Gown #14
5) Cheena-like Evening Gown
6) -- Undecided --

Since the appointment was going on so smoothly Ms Non-Committal decided to try her luck and politely asked the bridal consultant if item 4 could be asterix-ed as well. Ms Non-Committal thought it'll be nice to wear Red Gown #14 back in Malaysia as it is grander than MHPG and she wouldn't need to worry about it being in the same design as Wedding Gown B. The consultant agreed to this adhoc request so Ms Non-Committal got a good deal and will now 3 different actual day gowns!
1)* Wedding Gown B
2) Wedding Gown A
3)* MHPG
4)* Red Gown #14
5) Cheena-like Evening Gown
6) -- Undecided --

Author's Note: Our original bridal package only allows us to loan the actual day evening gown (i.e. item 3) for another week so that Ms Non-Committal can wear it for the Malaysia wedding with no extra charge.

Ms Non-Committal took 3 white long gowns + 2 white shorter gowns & 1 really bad fall in the bridal shop before deciding on her outdoor photoshoot gown. She managed to convince Mandarin Collar Guy that she looks better in a long gown because of her "fat legs", much to his disappointment. Ms Non-Committal eventually chose an A-Line long white gown. And so, the list is complete!
1)* Wedding Gown B
2) Wedding Gown A
3)* MHPG
4)* Red Gown #14
5) Cheena-like Evening Gown
6) A-Line Long White Gown

Sorry! No pictures because don't want to give away the wow factor before 5th November! Anyway, we're not supposed to take photos of the gown in the bridal shop. GRINZ.

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Honeymoon-planning: We bought the air tickets!

Starring: "The Jetstar StarClass Enthusiast (JSCE)" and "The Man"

We have come a long way to decide on where to go for our honeymoon.
The following list shows just how much we changed our minds on selecting a honeymoon destination over this last year.
(As usual, all images are linked directly to their respective original sites. So if they are missing, means the owner has removed it from the source)
  1. New Zealand - decided early last year but changed our mind as it was too expensive
  2. Angkor Wat - found a quaint little boutique villa (http://www.sojournsiemreap.com) and thought that we could take part in the Angkor Wat half-marathon as well. Unfortunately, we were advised against it our parents. Not wanting to upset them, we decided to shelve this option.
  3. Mauritius- Found a full board package for less than 3k (inclusive of air-fare) but it is in Africa...well, that said it.
  4. Royal Caribbean Cruise - The JSCE afraid that she will get sea sick.
  5. Las Vegas & New York - Good because Sing Dollars is appreciating against USD and our trip coincide with the Black Friday Sales! The man was strongly for it but The JSCE was strongly for option 6.
  6. New Zealand - Christchurch earthquake has caused NSD to drop. "And Jetstar now flies to Auckland", according to Joanne Peh. This significantly lowered the cost of a NZ honeymoon.

We were stuck in this deadlock between US & NZ for almost 2 months. Our date night this week addressed this topic, and The man was benevolent and agreed to visit NZ for our honeymoon. The JSCE assured The man that we will certainly be visiting US in the near future, especially when The JSCE becomes Singaporean. (visa no longer required)

A day after this decision was made, we were blessed with a "Jetstar StarClass" promo to Auckland. The return StarClass tickets cost $1,150, where were comparable to Emirates (flights include 8 hour transit in Brisbane) and Qantas ($300 more expensive, transit some where in Australia). The last I checked (1 day after we booked), the return ticket from Auckland now costs $950, i.e. no more promo fare. We got a good deal!

 Now that we've got our air tickets booked & paid, the next step is planning for the things to do on the trip. We've engaged a NZ tour agency (http://www.firstlighttravel.com/) to help us with our custom itinerary. Will keep you updated!